While you should feel free to express your true thoughts, complaining about the weather, talking smack about your roommate and/or ripping on your colleague’s incorrect work is the incorrect texting approach.Remember, upbeat and positive texts often yield positive relationship results. While you may want your love interest to respond to you right away, it’s important to be respectful of their time when you send off a barrage of texts.I realize today’s women are not exactly traditional, and many of them do make the first contact.I also know men now often give women their card and say “call me” instead of asking for their number. Men, unless you want a masculine energy woman who will always take the lead, be the man by taking the traditional lead in communication. • Just because you can send a message immediately doesn’t mean you deserve an immediate response.Texting has changed relationships—and not for the better.
• Never e-mail or text when you’ve just ended an emotional phone conversation. • If you wouldn’t deliver your message in person, then don’t send it via text or e-mail.It not only shows that you’re a kind and grateful person, it also helps open the door to a conversation about when you’ll hang out again in the future. In order to avoid a major texting faux pas, it’s time to stop asking your date a million questions via text.While your instinct may be to keep asking questions in order to sustain a conversation, this person can feel like you’re grilling him or her, and your discussion becomes an uncomfortable and unwanted interrogation.When you’re starting to date someone new, a great way to let this person know that you’re thinking about them is by texting to show that they're on your mind.
Whether it’s to say good morning, good night, or just “thinking about you,” this simple action can speak volumes in terms of letting this person know that they're important enough for you to take time to say hello. Another great way to let your date know that you’re thinking of them is by sending a text that directly refers to a specific topic that you discussed when you were together.If he takes you out you can thank him verbally at the end of the date.