From the wise words of Eckhart Tolle, “You will never find salvation in a relationship.” Stop looking for happiness in your partner. Which leads us to the next point…One of the most important factors in the health of any relationship is how you handle your emotions.In fact, the rare high-quality man has total control over his emotions.
In fact, I know plenty of BPD women who treat their boyfriends like kings because of this truth.
So, you work hard everyday, convinced that you can make your BPD partner “better.” You want to be the hero! You keep telling yourself that you know your partner could be so much better. When you seek a repeat of the Honeymoon Period, you lose focus on reality.